[altsquad]

keep digging, the goodies are all here and not too hard to find.

I can dig into this more and help you troubleshoot stuff, but not at this moment as I'm going to sleep soon. So more later.

It might be me, but after spending more than 2 hours going through the forum my head almost explodes. I do find them hard to find! I can't spend more than hour reading stuff, because then everything start to blend together and I can't make sense of it anymore (some say that could be one of my many signs of ADD or ADHD  that was never diagnoses). I'm keeping an excel list of what I see people take, and look it up in the big FAQ list to see what it is and does. But honestly, most of it goes over my head.

If you, or anyone else, could help me get started that would be great. Like you said, one thing balances or improves the other, but I have little to no idea if I got that down correctly with the list that I have right now.

Take your time, I don't mind figuring this all out correctly (I overspend my monthly budget anyway, so I need to wait until I get my salary before I can get started on NBE)