[Prissyme]

Not everybody, sometimes some of us can be inflicted by darker times and we can search for a person's weakness to exploit causing harm. There's absolutely no excuse, what's done is done, embarrassed though we may be yes that was me then just me but still was me. Not everybody deserves a second chance that's obvious to me and though I'm in a far better place I wouldn't give Hitler or Stalin a second chance. Okay I'm not at that extreme of course I'm not, but I can fully understand feelings I may have stomped upon, i have a lot of those myself. BTW anybody on 'stuff' feeling confused or overwhelmed by emotion and can't figure out why, you are not alone, definitely not, there are those who can attempt to help. Its not just you. Ask, that's all.