[beverley.rose]

I would suggest going to a department store and getting a bra, not a big one but an A or B cup, and wearing it. Use a breast form or something to fill out the cups. Now go for a walk downtown. If you can't handle that then growing breasts is out. Once you do grow them you will be wearing that bra all the time. Give this a LOT of thought - and try the bra. Its a good way to see what you are in for.

What an excellent suggestion. In my case a bit redundant, though. When I go out, a bra is the only piece of female clothing I don't wear. 3" heels and a knee length skirt don't leave much to the imagination.

Nonetheless, Wishful's point is well made and a good one. I am very happy in a female persona that's why I spend as much time as possible en fem. Breasts will be the finishing touch for me, not the start of something. If you cannot stand being publicly female then you had better not have any breasts.

Beverley