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Good advice.
We went through all that late last year/into the start of the new year when it came out, endless talking, trans, trans, trans, trans, it was exhausting and upsetting for both of us.
Things are a lot more settled now, and a kind of equilibrium has been reached, where we're both 'ok+' with how things are going and a timeline, and a 'lets take it day by day' viewpoint.
Now I'm being treated as one of the girls, and it's as normalised as it can be at this point with only minimal changes as yet on my body, it's nice and really helps to offset the dysmorphia and other negative stuff a lot.
Overall our relationship seems to be as strong as ever, we've always been great at facing adversary together, Births, deaths, redundancies, divorces, family issues with criminal members, adoptions, you name it, we've battled through. I know I'm very lucky with my choice of life partner and I'm very thankful.
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Good advice.
We went through all that late last year/into the start of the new year when it came out, endless talking, trans, trans, trans, trans, it was exhausting and upsetting for both of us.
Things are a lot more settled now, and a kind of equilibrium has been reached, where we're both 'ok+' with how things are going and a timeline, and a 'lets take it day by day' viewpoint.
Now I'm being treated as one of the girls, and it's as normalised as it can be at this point with only minimal changes as yet on my body, it's nice and really helps to offset the dysmorphia and other negative stuff a lot.
Overall our relationship seems to be as strong as ever, we've always been great at facing adversary together, Births, deaths, redundancies, divorces, family issues with criminal members, adoptions, you name it, we've battled through. I know I'm very lucky with my choice of life partner and I'm very thankful.