17-03-2024, 11:28 AM
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Hi Karen,
Thank you for your kind words.
Your own experience does seem to be more of a TV/Crossdresser rather than TG/TS and that's great if that's what you're comfortable with.
In my own case I'm not after a sexual thrill or anything of that nature. Yes some clothes are nice and can make you feel sexy/sensual but that in itself isn't really what I'm looking for.
I spent many many (too many) years doing the 'my body is the wrong shape, feet and hands too big, too ugly, no hair etc etc' as a means to 'convince myself that I couldn't possibly be transgender, in the end though you work with what you have and I'm done trying to deny my true self.
I'm dressing fulltime in women's clothes (albeit nothing more than androgynous) but if people cared to look, a good 99% of my clothing is female. To me, this is just normal, I'm not getting sexual thoughts or feelings whilst being like this.
Everyone is different, what works for you, works for you and that's good, as is my own experience
Yesterday my wife (unbeknown to me) went on a little shopping expedition and brought me back some great items, made me feel special and helped to lift myself out of my despair.
I know I have some great big hurdles in the future: Hair (wigs), voice, and electrolysis to just think of the biggies, but I'm going to worry about these more in the future when it's more relevant and try to enjoy the now, right now.
I know I'll have bumps in the road, but I'm really trying hard to keep a positive outlook and minimise those darker times, after all no one likes a whiny bitch.
Thanks again though, for replying, it can feel a bit empty in the forums at times, it seems like it really peaked around ten years ago from all the stuff I've read.
Hi Karen,
Thank you for your kind words.
Your own experience does seem to be more of a TV/Crossdresser rather than TG/TS and that's great if that's what you're comfortable with.
In my own case I'm not after a sexual thrill or anything of that nature. Yes some clothes are nice and can make you feel sexy/sensual but that in itself isn't really what I'm looking for.
I spent many many (too many) years doing the 'my body is the wrong shape, feet and hands too big, too ugly, no hair etc etc' as a means to 'convince myself that I couldn't possibly be transgender, in the end though you work with what you have and I'm done trying to deny my true self.
I'm dressing fulltime in women's clothes (albeit nothing more than androgynous) but if people cared to look, a good 99% of my clothing is female. To me, this is just normal, I'm not getting sexual thoughts or feelings whilst being like this.
Everyone is different, what works for you, works for you and that's good, as is my own experience
Yesterday my wife (unbeknown to me) went on a little shopping expedition and brought me back some great items, made me feel special and helped to lift myself out of my despair.
I know I have some great big hurdles in the future: Hair (wigs), voice, and electrolysis to just think of the biggies, but I'm going to worry about these more in the future when it's more relevant and try to enjoy the now, right now.
I know I'll have bumps in the road, but I'm really trying hard to keep a positive outlook and minimise those darker times, after all no one likes a whiny bitch.
Thanks again though, for replying, it can feel a bit empty in the forums at times, it seems like it really peaked around ten years ago from all the stuff I've read.