[ariadne]

Holy crap that's a long post I just scrolled back up and saw how long it was I apologize for the length in which that post is

Hi - I'm sympathetic to your situation.  Lost my marriage due to my gay inclinations.
There are plenty of couples who stay married, the man turning sissy, and the wife now and then entertained by a "real" man.  It can work.
All sorts of things can work.  We think ourselves into situations, biological absolutes are not usually the governing factor.
x Ari