22-08-2024, 10:43 AM
Agreed, again agreed and there's a lot to be said about language. Its important because language shapes ideas and attitudes, but being overly sensitive about it could be too much. Like for example how I had to censor my username here when I first joined. Its supposed to be HelloTitty but I was told it might be offensive to some users which felt weird so I modified a bit and have kept it since.
Like huh? Weird? Obvious slurs being used in an objectifying pervy manner is disgusting, but we don't see that done here much at all. If it were, I would absolutely jump on it because I have zero tolerance for bigotry or misogyny. Mostly just random use of what ever words isn't doing any real damage though. Interestingly, I feel more at home here than in most trans only spaces because BN is more tolerant and open minded. And the reason often is that my old school and binary ideas aren't tolerated elsewhere, let alone my thinking of how dysphporia works and what I think about medical transition and so on. No one has called me out on BN for being evil transmedicalist truscum which is awesome.
I can absolutely see it why most trans women leave the forum at some point, I've had the feeling of not belonging some times, but I've promised to stick around for breast growing science and closeted trans women who need a sister to help them out. I feel that our diversity is why this forum is awesome, and the focus on what makes boobs and overall body feminisation tick. Trans spaces and fetish spaces are many and all over the place, BN forum is unique.
Like huh? Weird? Obvious slurs being used in an objectifying pervy manner is disgusting, but we don't see that done here much at all. If it were, I would absolutely jump on it because I have zero tolerance for bigotry or misogyny. Mostly just random use of what ever words isn't doing any real damage though. Interestingly, I feel more at home here than in most trans only spaces because BN is more tolerant and open minded. And the reason often is that my old school and binary ideas aren't tolerated elsewhere, let alone my thinking of how dysphporia works and what I think about medical transition and so on. No one has called me out on BN for being evil transmedicalist truscum which is awesome.
I can absolutely see it why most trans women leave the forum at some point, I've had the feeling of not belonging some times, but I've promised to stick around for breast growing science and closeted trans women who need a sister to help them out. I feel that our diversity is why this forum is awesome, and the focus on what makes boobs and overall body feminisation tick. Trans spaces and fetish spaces are many and all over the place, BN forum is unique.