[trayne]

I truly belive that there are misunderstandings on all sides here.  I am now officially just a lurker for just speaking up.  I must have no credibility because I am not in the established group.  Come on guys, lets welcome new people.  If later they become toxic, aka trolls, then take the right avenues to either help them or remove them.

I think we should give benefit to others that their intent is to not tarnish the forum.  If a violation occurs, it is the job of the moderator to address the situation.  

If you have a problem with something, why not PM the individual?  Guys, girls, we are all in this forum trying to live our lives in a world that for the most part don't understand our decisions.  I think most of us don't like being judged for how we feel, so why would we do that to somebody else.

We all come from different walks of life.  We don't officially know one another, what gives us the right to judge a post title and it's intent.  If it is not right for you, turn the page.  If there is a violation of the rules, report it.

I hope moving forward we can encourage each other to be our best and avoid judging one another.  I think there is no shortage of that in the world today.