Manue,
So sorry to hear about the harassment, in this day and age I would think it doesn't matter, but I guess it all depends on location. In the USA trans has become more accepted now than back in the 1980's when I entered the job market. Of course there's still places in the USA that discrimination still takes place and is usually covered up by the employer.

Stay strong, don't back down on your legal remediations and try not to wall people out too much, there's someone out there for you, if you want an intimate relationship with a life partner, it will happen, of course there's nothing wrong with being by ourselves. After my last wife passed I was content to be single until I passed away, then 15 years later I met a wonderful woman who loves me, even with all my quirks, for lack of a better term.