Hi, this is my first post.  This website is so informative, thank you all for the contributions...At this point I would like to try with an herbal program to develop slowly, feminine breasts.  I would like to be a MSM but am concerned growth might happen and it might get to the point of no return.  So a few questions...
If married, was this a decision you and your wife came to or did you experiment and grow them?  And was your wife accepting?  
What are your thoughts for a slow development that can look inconspicuous?
Any thoughts on herbal regimen that can just feminize the nipple and areola?

Thank you aonmuch