Hi 27!
Welcome to the the rest of your life.
Reading your bio sounds a lot like mine, but a lot longer time ago.

As for your buds, congratulations, but have no fear your not going to be sporting C cups by next week.
NBE is a very slow process, and it needs to be consistent too.
You can ramp up the process with Suction devices, but in general its slow going.
Many hours of Massage, trying different combinations of herbs, mental wrestling, etc.
And if your still enjoying an active sex life thats going to change also.

At some point you will need to talk with a gender counselor, or a shrink. to get an outside glimpse of what you are experiencing. 
Then you will need to have the talk with wife and family, since this is a big change in day to day life.

There is no easy way out of this one, some have had great outcomes and acceptance and others not so.
Maybe there is something left on that shelf that will guide you.

Huggs
Bobbi