[Pansy-Mae]

I agree with Chrissiegirl. For me the buds appeared more or less at the same time as the pains. However you may not be able to actually see anything straight away, but if you put your fingers an inch or so either side of the nipple and press down and squeeze them together VERY gently, you will begin to feel a firmness as though there is a lump under the skin that is very tender.
If you feel something like that...you are on your way and its just patience from now on!

Pansy Mae