14-03-2011, 08:39 PM
thanks for the advice ladies.
It may be weird but I decided that when I was young that I didn't want a boyfriend but a husband. So i've never had a boyfriend, or a first kiss, I've just 'dated' I suppose.
I have become good friends with a very nice guy and I think he might be the one but...teen love can be such a tricky thing that I can't completely trust that it's actually love and not a crush. He's a gentleman, completely devoted to me and he's always showering me with complements(most of which I don't see) and he's always making sure that I'm pleased with him and he hasn't done anything to upset me. About a week after I started talking to him frequently we became close friends and I trusted him with my feelings, which is strange cause it takes months for me to trust people even a little bit (could that be a sign?). And when I think about him I don't get that lovey-dovey feeling that I got with other crushes, I just feel happy.
It may be weird but I decided that when I was young that I didn't want a boyfriend but a husband. So i've never had a boyfriend, or a first kiss, I've just 'dated' I suppose.
I have become good friends with a very nice guy and I think he might be the one but...teen love can be such a tricky thing that I can't completely trust that it's actually love and not a crush. He's a gentleman, completely devoted to me and he's always showering me with complements(most of which I don't see) and he's always making sure that I'm pleased with him and he hasn't done anything to upset me. About a week after I started talking to him frequently we became close friends and I trusted him with my feelings, which is strange cause it takes months for me to trust people even a little bit (could that be a sign?). And when I think about him I don't get that lovey-dovey feeling that I got with other crushes, I just feel happy.