[EmilyAngelina]

.... if not taking a good read-through of "Harry Benjamin … Standards of Care" taking some time with the criteria....

Thanks for the tip. Do you mind if I ask what you consider yourself to be? I'm not totally clear after reading what you posted. It all sounded very, very experimental.

first off, to be clear, every thing I have posted so far is a accurate representation of my life and knowledge as far as I know it, considering I have spent a great amount of time reading most every book I can get my hands on in terms of TG, and what I have come up with is that little of it applies directly to me. I have also spent a good deal of time considering where I stand with respect to myself (alone, with my SO, and with more then one therapist). I also have many friends scattered about the LGBTQ community, and I know that I can relate to few of them completely.
So, what I have come up with is what I have tried to say very clearly in my signature: that both camps have stereotypes of themselves as well as stigmas with respect to the other camp. And basically I would rather stand between the two and challenge both of their stereotypes and the stigmas as much as possible.

Though the short answer is: TV/(TS?), gender-outlaw, neither wishing to identify as completely male, or completely female, based on a fluid thought pattern.