Prettymama, I don't know what all herbs you are taking cause the only one you mentioned was Maca. When I was on an individual herb program that consisted of Fenugreek, Saw Palmetto, and Wild Yam, I too lost my sex drive. I have said many times how those herbs when I took them gave me all kinds of nasty side effects. But that was the only time I got that during NBE. So it sounds to me like one or a few of the herbs you are taking are giving this side effect to you. I take Maca and never had a problem with that with that supplement. I take it to make me more wet, and it works. I take half the recommended dosage daily as I don't want to grow more butt wise, just want it for the help with dryness. Now the other thing I now take that somewhat helps is Extenze for women. But my suggestion would be to pinpoint which herb is doing this for you, stop taking it, cleanse your system, then go from there. Have you explained to your significant other what is going on with you? I would hate for it to have to ruin your relationship.