10-08-2011, 05:39 PM
(10-08-2011, 03:50 PM)sfem Wrote: "Having is not so pleasing a thing as wanting?" I think that was a line from the original Star Trek. Spock was commenting on human nature.
Very similar to the old saying, " It's better to travel than to arrive".
I understand what both Julie and sfem are saying, because I've had moments of doubt and even stopped for 4 weeks, a couple of months ago, partly to get my head around things...and decided to carry on.
However, just yesterday, I was wearing a soft slightly clingy jumper over the bra in my avatar and just caught sight of myself in a mirror as I passed and realised in amazement that that was me and those are real, not padding! It just feels ( and looks) right. There is no sexual component ( I don't think there ever has been for me), it is just me.
Pansy Mae