13-08-2011, 08:35 PM
I intend to die as a male. OK, I only wore a man's, jacket, shirt and shoes once in five years: at my eldest daughter's prom. I want to present as my children's father on occasions where that's who I am. If they have children, I will be happy to be their grandfather.
I certainly do not want SRS. I have linked the main reason here:
http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=9076&pid=31822#pid31822
Life for post ops is short, and ends in the most horrible ways. It may look like only one study, but all previous attempts at similar studies have failed to even find the post ops back.
I see SRS as the ultimate eunuch fantasy. In practice, it is self mutilation.
Passing is also a fantasy. When I stopped wearing make up, heels, nail polish and self tanner, everybody started calling me madam.
Wanting a feminine figure is not a fantasy. It is a healthy expression of sexual desire. Maybe misplaced, but still healthy. Over time, people have learned to accept masturbation as a healthy sexual practice too.
Two years from now, my views may be different. I know very few people in the wider TG community who have kept the same goals for years.
I certainly do not want SRS. I have linked the main reason here:
http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=9076&pid=31822#pid31822
Life for post ops is short, and ends in the most horrible ways. It may look like only one study, but all previous attempts at similar studies have failed to even find the post ops back.
I see SRS as the ultimate eunuch fantasy. In practice, it is self mutilation.
Passing is also a fantasy. When I stopped wearing make up, heels, nail polish and self tanner, everybody started calling me madam.
Wanting a feminine figure is not a fantasy. It is a healthy expression of sexual desire. Maybe misplaced, but still healthy. Over time, people have learned to accept masturbation as a healthy sexual practice too.
Two years from now, my views may be different. I know very few people in the wider TG community who have kept the same goals for years.