[Cheryl1989]

Hi Everyone, as you know i dont post that much on here anymore but this discussion is interesting. I have to admit at the start of my NBE i never wanted to be a female, not that i knew of anyway, i had issues with my body and of course i had a strong if not over powering desire to have breasts, it was like they should be here but where missing. However with the results i begun to have i found my whole life changing and my desire out of necessity to become a woman became more apparent. What i will say is growing breasts and developing a more female figure as a man is fine to a certain extent but when a certain stage is reached it can become very difficult to continue being a man with such pronounced female attributes. I became confused and as some of you know found my whole transition very hard as i was always unsure who i was or if i was male or female. Now i know many will say i had very good results very fast but still i have seen many men on my forum and hear having good results and i guess my question is how far is to far to be able to continue life as a man, i know many of you have asked the same question to yourself. But imagine waking up tomorrow with a pair of D cup breasts, What would you do ? i know many will say if only lol but seriously how would you continue as a man ? Im not saying when you get to a certain stage you have to be a woman lol thats just crazy but i want people to maybe think about what they are doing and how far they are willing to go. I hate using labels like transexual and a transgender and so on we are who we are but society is not forgiving and if you do not belong in a catagory, I.e male, female you are called a freek or unusual and so on, people do not understand it. I also feel age is a factor, if you are a 20 year old man wanting breasts and a more female figure but you do not want to be a woman in the future then you really need to think about this and consider is very carefully. I mean you might want to get married, have children, get a certain job, go on holiday and take your top off lol this could be very difficult to do if you choose to do this. However i think men that are settled and are more mature and middle age with families would find this alot easier to some degree, aslong as your partner and family understand and accept what you want to do then the hurdles you would face as a man with breasts and a more feminine figure would be less of a life changing aspect to you and could be enjoyed. Now this is just my opinion and not meant to aggravate anyone lol im not like that

Hugs Cheryl xxxxx