26-09-2011, 11:08 AM
(This post was last modified: 26-09-2011, 11:17 AM by beverley.rose.)
(26-09-2011, 12:01 AM)lucyconfused Wrote: Hi everyone, Im a 30 year old guy from the UK who has been crossdressing on and off for over half my life, in the last year more seriously with the fake boobs, wigs etc. I cant see myself as ever being true TS for many many reasons, partly the fact that Id never be convincing enough to satisfy myself, never mind anyone else, thats even before I think what it would do to my family......
I started from exactly that position. Taking these herbs has changed my view and my goals and, for me, the mental changes have been stronger than the physical changes to date.
My body hair is getting finer, my shape is changing and I have lost a lot of male sexual urges. I can go without sex for weeks now and whilst arousal is possible, I now have to work at it just like a woman does. The old on/off switch that most men have no longer works for me. Read this http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=9798
I am not saying that this will happen to you, but it MIGHT do so be prepared. A year ago I would have placed myself solidly in the TV camp, now I am more TS than TV. If you do feminise, and grew breasts would you be prepared to be seen in public with them either as a male or a female. If the answer is no then you had best stop because once you have them they will not go away. I am not talking about transitioning here jsut asking what you will do if you grow a B cup. In my case, I already live as a woman so it is a no-brainer for me.
Find a support group and go there. If you are in the UK northwest then Manchester / Wales has good support and I can point them out to you.
Beverley