[bryony]

You realise you are TS; the world would be a better place, for you and those around you, if that was realised. I was described, recently, by my Maitre'di, as a big breasted woman. Question? do you want to be a big breasted woman; with a big & functioning Dick? Yes= fantastist. Please get real.

I do realise it Chrissie. I would love to be a woman but I was born a man, and, like you, married a lovely woman who deserves better treatment than for me to kill off the man she married. I'm making the best of a bad job. I'm going to try my damnedest to develop a coping strategy that works. I'm not going to allow myself to become so bitter and twisted about having a woman's mind in a man's body that I allow myself to believe that being a man is filthy and encourage other TSs to deprive their wives of their penises.

I understand the yearning and the unfairness of it all too. I'm not that much younger than you. You told me that my experiences resonated with yours.

But you have no skin in the game anymore, do you? You don't have a wife to suffer the loss of the penis that you have come to believe is so disgusting.

Why did you wait for your wife to die before you started to transition? If it was because you loved her, why do you encourage others with loving wives to transition? Did she know you were TS? Did she prevent you cross-dressing? Is this why you don't seem to care about other TS's wives?

We're living in a world that is so brainwashed with the cult of the "self" that marriage has become little more than a joke to some people, and obviously to you, too! People should grow up and realise that every action has consequences. You don't just take up a commitment with a partner, ostensibly for life and then say, "stuff you, I'm going to be a woman now, so you're going to have to be a lesbian". Or dump dump someone you've had 3 kids with, lived with for 20 years so you can marry some bloke you met at the support group.

And you have the cheek to tell me to get real.

If being a transsexual is about being a woman, how about showing some empathy for the real women in these relationships? I care, not only about my wife, but about all the wives out there who are going to suffer if they lose their men to the state/medical orthodoxy.

Who is the real woman? The one who believes in a heterosexual relationship between a man and wife or the one who thinks that the world should consist of lesbian women and lesbian T-girls? Get real?

Being a woman is about more than having tits and a dress. It's about nurturing and caring for anyone, not just transsexuals, and especially not hating all males.

Just because I don't like being a male, it doesn't mean to say that I believe that they are all automatically bad! Get real?

Bryony