11-12-2011, 01:15 PM
Hi JMT,
I hope you don't mind me asking but..
If I have not misunderstood, what you mean by "full" involves genital reconstruction surgery? If you simply mean presenting full time as a female, please ignore the following.
1) If you want a full transition, doesn't that imply that you are a TS? Or is it extreme autogynephilia?
2) If you are FF and having fun, why would you want to have your penis removed? Won't your wife miss it? Don't you want fun anymore?
Very personal questions, I'll quite understand if you don't want to reply.
I always ask people to tell me to go away if my questions/opinions offend.
It's just that I feel a lot of TS people feel compelled to follow the path to full transition to conform to a societal norm, the "woman stereotype", and it is the only way they can feel "a true woman". I'm trying my best to persuade such people that this is illusory, and that there is a third option: having the best of both worlds.
Even full transition is a masquerade; you won't have a womb, menstruate, your hips will stay narrow, your feet, hands and shoulders large, and, unless your name is Andrej Pejic, facial feminisation surgery will be needed to be anywhere near convincing.
Give me a lineup of women who didn't mess around with hormones before the age of 20, and I will point out all the ones who started out as male.
My rhetorical question is: if people know you started as a man, why have your genitals reorganised?
I sincerely believe that people with a loving sexual relationship with a partner, full, rather than partial, transition can do more harm than good (in my opinion only ... but I think it's a good one!
)
I've been a bit more coherent here - please have a look at it.
B.
I hope you don't mind me asking but..
(11-12-2011, 05:38 AM)JMT Wrote: Sexual function, better before or after NBE or just different, ? Still FF and having fun
Do you have a label, ie crosdresser, TG , TS, ? TG applies best
What are your Goals, partial, full, super stealth ? Full
If I have not misunderstood, what you mean by "full" involves genital reconstruction surgery? If you simply mean presenting full time as a female, please ignore the following.
1) If you want a full transition, doesn't that imply that you are a TS? Or is it extreme autogynephilia?
2) If you are FF and having fun, why would you want to have your penis removed? Won't your wife miss it? Don't you want fun anymore?
Very personal questions, I'll quite understand if you don't want to reply.
I always ask people to tell me to go away if my questions/opinions offend.
It's just that I feel a lot of TS people feel compelled to follow the path to full transition to conform to a societal norm, the "woman stereotype", and it is the only way they can feel "a true woman". I'm trying my best to persuade such people that this is illusory, and that there is a third option: having the best of both worlds.
Even full transition is a masquerade; you won't have a womb, menstruate, your hips will stay narrow, your feet, hands and shoulders large, and, unless your name is Andrej Pejic, facial feminisation surgery will be needed to be anywhere near convincing.
Give me a lineup of women who didn't mess around with hormones before the age of 20, and I will point out all the ones who started out as male.
My rhetorical question is: if people know you started as a man, why have your genitals reorganised?
I sincerely believe that people with a loving sexual relationship with a partner, full, rather than partial, transition can do more harm than good (in my opinion only ... but I think it's a good one!
)I've been a bit more coherent here - please have a look at it.
B.