[bryony]

Yes, my wife might miss it, but that's still a long way off and there are plenty of other ways to have fun.

Yes, that may be true, but you really need to be sure that she really doesn't mind, and not saying what she thinks you want to hear.

Glad to hear it's a long way off. However, part of the journey, if you want to go that far, will mean getting involved with the medical orthodoxy, and becoming part of "the system". That means estrogens which come with all sorts of huge risks - blood clotting, heart disease etc, not safe ones like PM.

Any major surgery comes with huge risks too. Would it really be so bad to be a lesbian with a penis? Particularly if it gives you pleasure? Who's to know? It's not like you'll get a snap inspection by your employer's gynecologist is it?

That's my piece... I won't say anymore!

B.