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Sports bras don't work for me. First off, I don't like how they look so right there they are out for me. They usually show unless your outer layer is something heavy like a coat. I don't like how they mash my boobs to the sides. I'm always afraid it exacerbates the spread, aka the east-west problem. People feel the straps if they touch you. And the materials they are made from don't feel like materials I want next to my breasts. I'm not a cotton bra kind of guy. You can get lycra sports bras, but they show more. A tank top can be very similar to an undershirt, and really only has the boob-mashing issue. Just get used to the idea that people will notice. Most will quietly assume it's moobs unless you do something to draw attention to them. Like having the bottom band of your sports bra show when you bend over or twist to reach something.