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I would also comment that complete erectile disfunction does not necessarily end the physical side of marriage, with goodwill and mutual effort to find a solution. After all, same sex female couples manage to get along fine without that function.

Hi A.,

thanks for the fulsome reply. Regarding the bit quoted above, granted, unless the loss of ability is intentional or avoidable! I'm sure my wife would be very understanding if E.D./impotence was due to health problems but deliberately taking hormones/orchiectomies/vaginoplasty etc would be ruled out of court...

I find that PM does not render me impotent, particularly if I take regular breaks and also use Butea Superba. It then becomes a matter of choice.

On the other hand, I'm very pleased to find that I have an alternative now, should I need it in the future.

TTFN

B.

B.