29-06-2012, 05:54 PM
Thank you 
hopefully become and active member on here. With a gf it takes a lot of time and work as well 1-9 on weekdays gf on free time a lot of time. I just hate sneaking around and pretending im a man doing all these things men do when i'd really rather be shaving my legs and doing my nails and buying a new wardrobe for the weekend ugh :/ gf is not for me shaving my legs but i been thinking about it lately to just do it and if shes offended thats on her and if she can't accept the small changes i take to be better with myself then she'll have to accept it or push me away. Thoughts, ideas. I dont want to sound selfish I do care about her thoughts and feelings since i have stopped a lot of what i did, legs, nails, shaping eyebrows to better her feelings on it and suppress mine but lately its just becoming too much to bear and i feel i have the right to take steps to where i want to be adn appear as contrary to a gf or others thoughts....dont i?
hopefully become and active member on here. With a gf it takes a lot of time and work as well 1-9 on weekdays gf on free time a lot of time. I just hate sneaking around and pretending im a man doing all these things men do when i'd really rather be shaving my legs and doing my nails and buying a new wardrobe for the weekend ugh :/ gf is not for me shaving my legs but i been thinking about it lately to just do it and if shes offended thats on her and if she can't accept the small changes i take to be better with myself then she'll have to accept it or push me away. Thoughts, ideas. I dont want to sound selfish I do care about her thoughts and feelings since i have stopped a lot of what i did, legs, nails, shaping eyebrows to better her feelings on it and suppress mine but lately its just becoming too much to bear and i feel i have the right to take steps to where i want to be adn appear as contrary to a gf or others thoughts....dont i?