[bryony]

As in it turns from desire to.normality? Or.no.desire to.do.so at all

No desire to cross-dress, pluck eyebrows or do any of those things.

My best guess is that when the brain gets the estrogen level it needs, that satisfies the "feminity deficit" to the extent that you don't need the other aspects, which were caused by your feminised brain wanting to externalise its feminity.

The only reason I am currently taking PM is to get the calm mental balance that I cannot achieve without it.

The price for that is that my breasts are growing, and have been for 10 months. I have to admit that I do like having them, but I am able to present as a male without difficulty so far. It would be most convenient for me if they now stopped growing, but every time I cut down on my dose, I start to obsess about them getting bigger and that feeling only goes away if I up the dose again - a bit like the Jekyll and Hyde story!

It enables me to function normally as a male, act like one, not waste time agonising over clothing and cosmetics, but the downside is that I am unlikely ever to go to a swimming pool again.

Perhaps if you pointed out the possible mental stability aspects of PM your girlfriend might be reassured a little bit.

B.