[bryony]

For those of you considering "Jumping the shark" (Sorry, couldn't resist) this is quite an interesting set of advice from someone who's done it all and lived to tell the tale. (She also agrees with FFS being more important).

http://iwanttobeagirl.org/kate-transition.html

There's an interview with her here: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/lifestyle/5761265/Kate-Craig-Wood-Im-lucky-many-men-would-never-pass-for-a-woman.html

B.