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It sounds like you already spoke to your partner. If she is apprehensive but willing to let you proceed slowly and you are hoping to keep your nipples small, then do not use PM. My first year of NBE I used FG, SP and Fennel. I had some small growth, to a small A cup, and my nipples did not change at all from being fairly small men's style in both shape and size. PM changed all that. If you are just exploring this with your partner, then perhaps that would be a better way to start. You can always move up to PM later like I did if things are going the way you want them to and you want to go to the next level.