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A very healthy perspective Charrie. I often wonder about the source of my predilections, and almost always come to the conclusion that I am really just seeking an excuse to call myself more socially acceptable, as if there were a "cure" or "fix". Can't be solved though because the issue of being socially acceptable lies with the accepters, not the acceptees and no amount of soul searching on the part of the acceptee will change any accepter. Soul searching is only potentially productive for self-acceptance. Of course it is the human condition among healthy individuals to wonder where things come from and what causes changes or variations. Don't stop wondering just because someone else found a reason for them to tell you their version of the whys and wherefores of life. Life is much too big and magnificent and complex to be explained simply.