09-06-2013, 02:04 AM
This is I hope relevant to Larana's queries, and possibly adding to Flamesabers' response from someone who is married.
Thank you Flamesabers, for reminding me of Lenneth’s poll. I felt that #3 was the best option, if only because #1 would not have accommodated my relationship with my wife who, while I have known her say that she thinks she might have a male brain, also says that she has never had any interest herself in sexual relationships with other women. Possibly that’s partly why we are a good fit. We were good friends for 16 years before we became lovers for what is now more than twice as long again, so we know that our relationship can survive without mutual orgasmic sex. In fact we found that, great as it was, trying to continue that eventually became a strain on the relationship which was relieved by my giving up attempting my part. Many women can find great comfort and satisfaction in sex without reaching a climax, or even just through cuddling, and now I am finding the same even if we both sometimes regret that a prominent part of my equipment is now largely useless. I hope, Larana, that my English is not too difficult for you, but what I am saying is that loss of function is not necessarily a disaster, even within a relationship.. It is my belief that relationships glued together mainly by sex, or anything else other than friendship and genuine mutual affection and admiration, will sooner or later fail..
You should be able to find an NBE program that will give you a reasonable development without losing functionality, and up to a point it should be possible to hide the results, but if you cannot risk loss of function or the possibility of your development being noticed, -and- you want the mental effects of PM on a continuing basis, then I think that NBE may not be your answer, as Flamesabers says.
Thank you Flamesabers, for reminding me of Lenneth’s poll. I felt that #3 was the best option, if only because #1 would not have accommodated my relationship with my wife who, while I have known her say that she thinks she might have a male brain, also says that she has never had any interest herself in sexual relationships with other women. Possibly that’s partly why we are a good fit. We were good friends for 16 years before we became lovers for what is now more than twice as long again, so we know that our relationship can survive without mutual orgasmic sex. In fact we found that, great as it was, trying to continue that eventually became a strain on the relationship which was relieved by my giving up attempting my part. Many women can find great comfort and satisfaction in sex without reaching a climax, or even just through cuddling, and now I am finding the same even if we both sometimes regret that a prominent part of my equipment is now largely useless. I hope, Larana, that my English is not too difficult for you, but what I am saying is that loss of function is not necessarily a disaster, even within a relationship.. It is my belief that relationships glued together mainly by sex, or anything else other than friendship and genuine mutual affection and admiration, will sooner or later fail..
You should be able to find an NBE program that will give you a reasonable development without losing functionality, and up to a point it should be possible to hide the results, but if you cannot risk loss of function or the possibility of your development being noticed, -and- you want the mental effects of PM on a continuing basis, then I think that NBE may not be your answer, as Flamesabers says.