04-07-2013, 01:36 PM
You have posed an interesting series of Questions.. and there is probably no one answer to them.
For me.. well I guess it started back when I was in my teens.. I had a fascination with lingerie and wearing it {especially my sisters bras].
In time, I did not so much outgrow these urges, but I did suppress them. University, job, marriage, kids, etc..... all these took a toll. However, in time, my wife and I 'experimented' and she found my secret desires.. and from there, we are at the position we are today.. her encouraging me and me trying.
For me.. well I guess it started back when I was in my teens.. I had a fascination with lingerie and wearing it {especially my sisters bras].
In time, I did not so much outgrow these urges, but I did suppress them. University, job, marriage, kids, etc..... all these took a toll. However, in time, my wife and I 'experimented' and she found my secret desires.. and from there, we are at the position we are today.. her encouraging me and me trying.