[PattiJT]

I had a thread about 15 pages back, that I'd rather not resurrect. I had more to add to it, but an incident occurred that cut it short. Rather than bring it up then, as it was a bit disturbing personally, I just kind of dropped out for a couple weeks to deal with it. Then other events occurred that ensured my further absence. This being the "random thoughts" thread that was started as a result of that thread, it seems like a good place to toss it out.

Back in March, things were going great. I was a bit conflicted regarding deciding when it might be appropriate to back off NBE or go to a maintenance dosage. I was quite satisfied with a pair of 44s, and considering I was at 160#, they had become "points of interest". While the discussion was taking place here, my wife and I made a short trip to a nearby town to take her best friend some things out of our garden. While my wife and her friend and I were talking, her friends' husband came over and said hello. (her friend is also Korean, and small-breasted). He then just reached out and groped me, saying I ought to wear a bra. Then, as I stood there in surprise, he did it again. Now, it didn't hurt physically, but the mental shock, and the emotional reaction were a huge surprise! I don't know what his wife thought, but I definitely had a lot of thoughts. Both ladies laughed, as did I, when I recovered momentarily. but I really didn't feel much humor. I later told my wife that I was rather pissed off about it. She more or less blew it off as no big thing, so I have been trying to figure out just why it bothered me so much.

Was it my fault for putting them out there? Was he being a turd? Should I just get used to it and expect it? Am I feeling the same things a girl feels when that happens? Should I even resent it at all?
I guess I'm a little bit ticked at myself, too, for not realizing that it just might happen someday. In one respect, it's probably a good thing that it wasn't a stranger. I do know a couple things. I'm not about to become a homebody, and after the last 6 months being off any NBE with no loss to the boobs, they're going wherever I go. Actually, I may be 1/4 " smaller, but that could be the way I measured. I've gotten a few looks in the past, mostly from girls, and a few snide comments as well. Usually I pass it off with a smile and just go on. Being groped, now that's different. Almost like being violated in some way.

Has anyone else had this not-so-wonderful experience? And how did you deal with it? I seem to remember Flamesabers having mentioned something similar, but haven't had time to go thru a gazillion posts to find it. I'd appreciate any opinions/thoughts. You'd think after 6 months I'd have resolved it, but not quite. I don't lose sleep over it, but it's often on my mind.