07-09-2013, 02:21 PM
(07-09-2013, 08:14 AM)PattiJT Wrote: Was it my fault for putting them out there? Was he being a turd? Should I just get used to it and expect it? Am I feeling the same things a girl feels when that happens? Should I even resent it at all?
I don't think it's your fault and no, I don't think it's something you should simply accept as being okay. The husband is the one who should change, not you.
Yes, I think it's quite likely you're feeling what a genetic girl feels like when she is groped.
(07-09-2013, 08:14 AM)PattiJT Wrote: Has anyone else had this not-so-wonderful experience? And how did you deal with it?
No, I haven't been groped, so I don't have any personal advice on how to cope with it.
(07-09-2013, 08:14 AM)PattiJT Wrote: I seem to remember Flamesabers having mentioned something similar, but haven't had time to go thru a gazillion posts to find it. I'd appreciate any opinions/thoughts. You'd think after 6 months I'd have resolved it, but not quite. I don't lose sleep over it, but it's often on my mind.
Is this the thread you're thinking of?
http://www.breastnexus.com/showthread.php?tid=14325
Do you think it would help if you acknowledged there are jerks in the world like that man and perhaps the most you can do is avoid them as much as possible? Or maybe telling him you don't like being groped might help you bring closure to this experience?