[Missed Miss]

I have some questions for the "inbetweenies" in regards to the gender spectrum. How do you feel during a conversation when someone refers to you as a man or when you check off the male box when filling out a form? Has brain rewiring and/or taking NBE herbs changed your feelings on this? Do you feel more or less self-conscious about this now that your'e pursing NBE?

When I recently had this happen to me it got me really thinking about my reaction to it. It's always felt odd to be labeled as a male or identify myself on a form as male. Judging strictly from a biological perspective, I'm a male no doubt. However, I feel that's where my maleness end. I think this is why in another thread I said I don't personally understand why males would consider it to be so distressing to have breast development. Ultimately I consider being labeled a male as archaic, however it's a reminder that despite my NBE progress or gender identity, people still see me as a male.

Some people will ALWAYS refer to you as male, even if you have a working uterus, huge tits, look, sound, dress and act EXTREMELY fem and are 8 months pregnant, simply because you were born with a dick between your legs!! These people just CAN'T get beyond that fact!! It's like it's THEIR DUTY to tell the WORLD that you used to be a guy and THEY HAVE to give you the okay to get a sex change!!!! You can bet yer freshly growing tits that they will NEVER give you/us the okay!!!! Such is the way of closed-minded pinheads that think it's THEIR business to get controllingly involved in YOUR/OUR business!!!! For SOME reason, someone getting a sex change severely screws up THEIR life!!