[Elisaustin]

I think it also might have to do with the time and the place.
It is really conservative here, and I mean really,
I bar tend at a local bar now and then just to fill in.
Its like a really liberal version of Cheers.
At any given time of the day you will find gay guys, lesbians, transgender. CD's what ever. Everyone pretty much knows one another and for the most
part gets along. You may have some stop in that are just curious but as a rule most of the everyday locals give it a pretty wide berth.
Mostly likely scared they would go in dressed bib overalls and come out in a dress lol.
At any rate if I am really feeling really bold I may wear a frilly blouse and even heels if I have a short shift.
Now you have the general picture.
One lesbian girl that comes in ask me what I was doing to myself that I was really looking different. I owned up to taking PM. Her response was well keep going its working.
I have had guys ask if I was a guy or a girl or if my breasts were real.
But even in that environment most do not really care.
My point is I think it might have to do with where you are and what you are doing on what kind of response you get.
If I was truly nuts I would walk down the street to the biker bar in my blouse and heels after I got off work.
I am betting I would get a response (most likely not a good one either)

Its about time and place