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I can't see giving out my skype address because my computer is shared by the family. Not appropriate. Make it cloak-and-dagger. Pick an uncommon clothing item or accessory for all to wear or carry. Maybe a baseball cap of a particular colour? Something everyone would be likely to have. No, I won't show up in a bikini or skirt and heels. Just scheduling such a thing might be tough the closer we get to the festive season.

But don't we all have a skirt and heels we could wear? It would be perfect for a halloween party!

On a more serious note, one item that comes to mind is a baseball cap with a pink ribbon. I figure most of us don't have one, but I think it would be a good covert symbol for NBE.