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Hey jenmay welcome,

I would suggest you start by looking at abidrew's or flamesabers plan,that's where I started from,
plenty of info there,just use the search option.But also a little more background might help,black cohosh doesn't do a lot for us(guys),fenugreek,SP,fennel,massage,(yes,you have start to stimulate some growth)would be a good start.
Also,as Karren would recommend to get yourself a pump!

Good luck

P.S.That's good info from doodlebug,I once went to a small local vitamin shop and they told me that if they didn't have want I wanted, they could order it for me.

Try these options,they shouldn't raise too much suspicion if it comes up,the fennel tea has more than one benefit