15-10-2013, 05:38 AM
We have a place here called, Persad, which psychologically deals specifically the LGBT crowd. You should look around in your area for a place like that. https://persadcenter.org/pages/locations
I know what you mean about the religiously endowed family. They don't know much of anything about my thing, either, but, for the last 20 years that I was in my band (I'm the drummer), I always wore a leotard, pantyhose or tights and a short skater/scooter skirt, and at least mom and my brother knew about that, but I seriously doubt anyone else did. A few times I even wore a bra and huge fake tits (Nerf balls) on stage. A few people in the band over the years were suspicious, but none knew for sure of my "sexual" leanings.
I guess if you don't come out to them soon, or just move away from them until you're done changing, your body will do the coming out FOR you. Someone at a place like Persad can help you figure things out. I hope you can find such a place. :-)
I know what you mean about the religiously endowed family. They don't know much of anything about my thing, either, but, for the last 20 years that I was in my band (I'm the drummer), I always wore a leotard, pantyhose or tights and a short skater/scooter skirt, and at least mom and my brother knew about that, but I seriously doubt anyone else did. A few times I even wore a bra and huge fake tits (Nerf balls) on stage. A few people in the band over the years were suspicious, but none knew for sure of my "sexual" leanings.
I guess if you don't come out to them soon, or just move away from them until you're done changing, your body will do the coming out FOR you. Someone at a place like Persad can help you figure things out. I hope you can find such a place. :-)