30-11-2013, 04:16 PM
...I'm speechless too fwoodhul. I wish I had something encouraging to tell you but I've been sitting here for 30 minutes, in shock, and I can't think of anything. I don't take relationships lightly so to watch helplessly as YOUR most important relationships crumble is just tragic. I feel bad for you and your kids. Your wife, if she follows through with leaving you, is choosing her own path out of her pain (I'm not judging her - I might do the same if I were her) but it has catastrophic consequences for you and especially your kids. I also know what it's like for you to need to do something about your gender. ...This just sucks! It looks like everyone looses. ...Hang in there. Maybe something unforeseen will shake out in the next few days... In the meantime, know that there are others out here thinking about you and hoping for something good for you and yours.