[MissC]

a response i posted on crossdressers.com [...] they are so anal about things its ridiculous. and if u mention anything about herbals no one would listen to you.

That place has some of the worst group-think I've ever seen on the Internet, and moderators that make former Soviet bloc countries look like protectors of free speech. You're not the first refugee.

On many sites, the "conventional TS mafia" as I call them simply do not allow discussion of anything other than synthetic drugs. They always defend this censorship with statements like "herbals are quackery" or "herbs don't work, period" as if they are busily protecting tender minds from accidentally seeing bad information; doing everyone a favor by quashing inquiry.

Yet here we are on this site, proving otherwise. Flamesabers and others are providing detailed documentation of their experiments, programs are generating replicable results, and I know for sure what's working for me.

Screw the naysayers. Never believe people who keep things from you and tell you it's for your own good. They are the worst kind of apparatchiki.

i've been on dates but they seemed awkward because i had a hard time keeping the conversation.

That's hardly unique or unusual!

i would go out with a guy on a date but i don't want to be thought of as gay because it would make me feel uncomfortable

Okay... so be bi. Pretty much no one is 100% straight or gay anyway. Just decide what you're going after, and feel good about it.