[Missed Miss]

Since this poll came out I have really had a hard tie sleeping at night. I am torn between the family I love and the person I'm hiding. I really want to say 'Fuck it!' I'm going to be a woman. I know I can do it. But with two children to support I just can't risk it. Even if in truth, my wife is the real breadwinner of the household. Money is tight. She is stressed. I'm stressed.

I tried searching the web for ways to bring up the topic of Daddy wants to be a girl and found a site made up of wives whose husbands (ex's) left them and the kids. It was real discouraging. The women were so distraught and who could blame them.

This sucks. I'm so torn up inside. Baby is crying. Back to my other life.

Jessica,

There's at least one video on YouTube, a documentary of TG's, and one section is basically called, I have two mommies. Maybe you can look at it from that perspective instead of daddy wants to be a girl. I'm SURE that it's VERY possible (wife willing) to be who you really are at home with your wife AND the kids and still have nothing really change. Maybe you can both watch that video together and she could see what you're dealing with AND what you'd like it to be with her. (I'm assuming you don't want her to leave you and you want her to support you in this.)