20-01-2014, 12:34 AM
Jessica, I, too, think that you have to put the family first. But, I believe that you need to nourish your own soul, as well. I don't see how you can give your best to your wife and children if you are not functioning well, and I don't think you can be your best when you are being torn up emotionally by your gender dysphoria.
You need to find a balance. Is full transitioning really that important at this point? Are there things you can do to easy the anguish you're feeling? Would meeting with a therapist be useful to you? Is there reason to believe that your wife will work with you on this problem?
Keep looking for an alternative that will keep you in your marriage, and keep you close to your children. Your strength of character is being tested both as a man and a woman. I'm sure you can meet the challenge with the right help and understanding.
CK
You need to find a balance. Is full transitioning really that important at this point? Are there things you can do to easy the anguish you're feeling? Would meeting with a therapist be useful to you? Is there reason to believe that your wife will work with you on this problem?
Keep looking for an alternative that will keep you in your marriage, and keep you close to your children. Your strength of character is being tested both as a man and a woman. I'm sure you can meet the challenge with the right help and understanding.
CK