23-01-2014, 05:25 PM
Emily,
I agree with Patty. And her advice helped me in a difficult spot in my relationship with my wife.
I would just add "love yourself," for the person you are. Your wife might not realize it now - or ever, but part of the person she fell in love with is Emily.
My wife and I came to a truce of sorts, finding out what her red line is difficult for me to accept sometimes but rebuilding the trust... Now that is something not to mess around with.
Take care of yourself.
I agree with Patty. And her advice helped me in a difficult spot in my relationship with my wife.
I would just add "love yourself," for the person you are. Your wife might not realize it now - or ever, but part of the person she fell in love with is Emily.
My wife and I came to a truce of sorts, finding out what her red line is difficult for me to accept sometimes but rebuilding the trust... Now that is something not to mess around with.
Take care of yourself.