[Scotti]

It's sad to think that for nearly all my life, until recently, I never found real sexual satisfaction in the arms of my wife as her husband, the man. Today, I do, but not as a man, but as a woman. What's ironic about it is that today, in a state of arousal brought about through "lesbian sex" with my wife, I'll often achieve a lasting erection as a "bi-product". LOL! But, if I then penetrate her vagina, I have to imagine that I'm the submissive, or I'll have a devil of a time reaching orgasm. Go figure.

Some of you must have the same sexuality, no?

CK

I'd have to state that I have some of the same, but not completely. I have always found satisfaction in being the man in the bedroom, but I have found an even greater satisfaction in being the woman! However, there are certain positions, thoughts and what not that actually make our experience end much quicker than I would like them to, especially when I have my penis in her vagina. There are also times that like you I have to use my imagination to maintain arousal, while other times just the stimulation and acts alone are enough to achieve satisfaction.

And if you've never tried it, enter your SO missionary position, then work it to where your penis is still in her, but you are the one straddling and riding her OR have her on top of you, then work it to where you are still inside her and she is thrusting into you missionary style!