[Samantha Rogers]

Right there with you, Clara, honey. I was also always uncomfortable hanging with the guys. And I also sought out at parties and elsewhere the company of girls, as I mentioned in an earlier post. The only difference is that something in me always pushed it into the sexual realm. But, don't get me wrong, it wasn't aggressive lust on my part (well, not usually...LOL), but rather that was the area that made me feel wanted, I think. Desired. I mentioned before that that was always a big part of sex for me... the wanting, the needing to be desired and needed...so, is that a more male or female trait, or neither and both? IDK Or is it just an insecurity thing?