[Lisa Lou]

To answer Flame's initial question, no doubt in my mind, PM! If you have read my post on the Gender Dysphoria thread you know why. Being Bigender, I want to have the best of both worlds. To me, that would be upper female and lower male.
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Lisa, you greedy butch bitch you. Are you my brother or my sister?

You're bending your gender into a pretzel!

Oh, well, I can love you both,

Clara

ROFLMAO Clara...

Seriously, Clara, sweetheart, I can be whatever your fantasy (or mine) of the moment is. That is what I love about my dual role!

Maybe I should submit GBB as a new subcategory of Gender Dysphoria to the DSM folks!

Pretzel... now that conjures up some visualizations that I'm sure will drive Sammy right to her lingerie drawer for a dry pair!

My whole life I have easily shifted from what we know as traditional male thoughts and actions to traditional female, but to me they were just me being me, until someone pointed out to me that I was acting feminine, or like a bitch. (once my breasts start budding will I then be a shape shifter?)

Sexually, I love being treated as both a man and woman by my lover, and also moving from the submissive role to a more dominant and back again. I also enjoy the same in a social situation, when a man holds a door open for me, I want to pat him on the cheek (either one) and thank him for being such a gentleman. He sees a guy that he is just being considerate to, I see someone treating me like a lady. It is my perception, and that is what I like.

That is why I have long thought this Neanderthal societal view of specific gender roles is insane. No one is 100% male or 100% female in their personality traits, thoughts, and actions 100% of the time! I applaud every gurl reading this who is not afraid to step outside of someone else's narrow definition of gender and sexuality. Yes, by my plumbing, I am male, but in my heart, my psyche, my brain, I am both male and female, and the lines are more often than not blurred.

Why is it that an individual is thought of as a freak if they identify 80% of the time with their non-bio gender? Who made those fucking rules? Remember Jack Benny? How he would cross his arms, with the palm of one hand holding his cheek and saying in that inimitable way, "Well!" Compare him to Andrew Dice Clay (who I'm sure is compensating in his persona for something!)...

Okay, I've rambled enough.

Love,
Lisa, the GBB