[GoneGirl]

Sexually, I love being treated as both a man and woman by my lover, and also moving from the submissive role to a more dominant and back again. I also enjoy the same in a social situation, when a man holds a door open for me, I want to pat him on the cheek (either one) and thank him for being such a gentleman. He sees a guy that he is just being considerate to, I see someone treating me like a lady. It is my perception, and that is what I like.

It took me several minutes to read through your last post, Lisa. My vision was obscured with tears of laughter and love.

There was a lot I wanted to respond to in your post, but, since I need to get some stuff done today, picked up on the snippet above, as most interesting.

I have noticed changes in myself since freeing my inner woman to the extent I have. There are times when I have allowed her to show through my tough (for me) male facade.

Like the other day my neighbor saw me shoveling the drive and decided to wheel his snowblower over to help clear the massive drifts. As he finished I waved and caught myself just before uttering, "Thanks, Brian, you're a doll!"

I was watching TV the other night with DW. Some nights I do it en femme (so relaxing!) and I'd often sit with my legs curled up under me like women often do. Well, that night I was in total male drab, but when I sat down, I curled my legs up under me! When I realized my mistake, I quickly uncurled and stretched my legs out and placed my feet on the coffee table to complete the male image.

I'm not as comfortable mixing my genders as you, Lisa.

So watch out, girls. The gender police are out there watching with a thousand eyes during those unguarded moments.

Clara