[Scotti]

That could be coming from two angles. A) She wants to inflict upon YOU the plans you made for her or B) she knows about your girly tendencies and wants to play along. Do you know which one it is? If she does in fact try to use them on you, I suggest you confess, then and there, to getting them for yourself and WANTING her to put them on you! I've found that those moments of intimacy are really good times to be wide open and vulnerable. It's easier for me anyway, to say what I've been aching to tell her and she seems to receive it well and respond to it better when she learns something new in those special moments.

Hmmmm, you are absolutely right Doodle, it could be one or the other or better still both! I've been trying to be subtle with my plans and ideas, dropping hints here and there but not outright coming clean on everything. Perhaps tonight she will know just a little bit more of my desires....