[Marina Kits]

CK makes a good point Scotti. My suggestion was based on the assumption that you HAVE already disclosed a fair amount to her or that you think she will react positively. I probably shouldn't have said that without first knowing more about your relationship. I certainly wouldn't risk a big fight or possible fracture in your relationship if you have a gut feeling that it wont go well. However, I do advocate total disclosure to your spouse even if it takes years to accomplish. Only you know what the right path is.