Clara,
I made some comments recently regarding the notion expressed by many here, and maybe yourself as well, that they just want to be "men with breasts". It appears that many of those people are realizing, the further they go with this, that they were somewhat in denial. More and more, the comments here are along the line of "now if I can just add this, or get this too, etc. Voice adjustment? Seems that's a good bit past the "men with breasts" stage. I was only saying that we need to be realistic, and that extremely few, if any, are going to just settle for breasts, they probably just don't know it yet, or are unwilling to admit it. Not saying it's a bad thing, it's just something that needs to be faced.
In your case, could it be that instead of being "addicted to sex", that rather it was an "obsession with sex"? Either way, by many of your comments, it seems that you, and others, are exchanging one addiction/obsession for another. While you are stating that you are no longer addicted/obsessed with sex, you have seemingly become addicted/obsessed instead with a much more involved level of cross-dressing. You call it cross-dreaming, but it appears that the dreaming is in the past tense, as it is being more and more acted out in real life. I say addicted/obsessed, because many of you have moved beyond the "men with breasts" stage in a very short time. Without trying to be offensive, I do find it somewhat humorous to see how quickly some of you have moved beyond what/who you thought you were. If you stop and think, in the rather short time you've been here, you've gone from thinking that a little bit of boobie growth is all you'd need, to the point where you are already considering figuring out a way to go out in public with a bit of "femmy' appearance. Food for thought, for all of us.
My feminine persona has almost always been of a submissive nature. I was never a very aggressive male. Perhaps my submissiveness was/is a product of the times I grew up in, and the cultural surroundings. It matters not, as I am quite satisfied with being so. the only times I would call my feminine side aggressive, was occasionally in the bedroom with my wife. For about 15 years, I usually wore lingerie, nighties, and wigs to bed, and when I initiated sex play, perhaps that could be called aggressive? (I have to admit, she was not overly pleased when I wore a garter belt and stockings to bed, so laid off of that). She was also happy when the breasts came in, so I didn't need to wear a bra to bed. She has a thing about playing with my nipples, and a bra just got in the way. Now, being post-menopausal, she has little interest in sex. We've only become closer regardless. and I still have a vast supply of nightgowns that I'll never completely use up. (Or quit buying).
I've never in my life looked at porn from the traditional male view. I always related with the female side. Still do. However, now when I look at photos, I much prefer seeing attractive non-pre-op, non-silicone TG ladies, (not the overly boobified shemales) receiving sex from men. That may be because even though I have personal changes planned, I still plan on keeping my "little friend", or as my wife calls him, my "little gentleman". Guess that makes me a bit unusual. I is what I is.
Sorry for the rambling, it's probably still a little bit of anesthesia.
I made some comments recently regarding the notion expressed by many here, and maybe yourself as well, that they just want to be "men with breasts". It appears that many of those people are realizing, the further they go with this, that they were somewhat in denial. More and more, the comments here are along the line of "now if I can just add this, or get this too, etc. Voice adjustment? Seems that's a good bit past the "men with breasts" stage. I was only saying that we need to be realistic, and that extremely few, if any, are going to just settle for breasts, they probably just don't know it yet, or are unwilling to admit it. Not saying it's a bad thing, it's just something that needs to be faced.
In your case, could it be that instead of being "addicted to sex", that rather it was an "obsession with sex"? Either way, by many of your comments, it seems that you, and others, are exchanging one addiction/obsession for another. While you are stating that you are no longer addicted/obsessed with sex, you have seemingly become addicted/obsessed instead with a much more involved level of cross-dressing. You call it cross-dreaming, but it appears that the dreaming is in the past tense, as it is being more and more acted out in real life. I say addicted/obsessed, because many of you have moved beyond the "men with breasts" stage in a very short time. Without trying to be offensive, I do find it somewhat humorous to see how quickly some of you have moved beyond what/who you thought you were. If you stop and think, in the rather short time you've been here, you've gone from thinking that a little bit of boobie growth is all you'd need, to the point where you are already considering figuring out a way to go out in public with a bit of "femmy' appearance. Food for thought, for all of us.
My feminine persona has almost always been of a submissive nature. I was never a very aggressive male. Perhaps my submissiveness was/is a product of the times I grew up in, and the cultural surroundings. It matters not, as I am quite satisfied with being so. the only times I would call my feminine side aggressive, was occasionally in the bedroom with my wife. For about 15 years, I usually wore lingerie, nighties, and wigs to bed, and when I initiated sex play, perhaps that could be called aggressive? (I have to admit, she was not overly pleased when I wore a garter belt and stockings to bed, so laid off of that). She was also happy when the breasts came in, so I didn't need to wear a bra to bed. She has a thing about playing with my nipples, and a bra just got in the way. Now, being post-menopausal, she has little interest in sex. We've only become closer regardless. and I still have a vast supply of nightgowns that I'll never completely use up. (Or quit buying).
I've never in my life looked at porn from the traditional male view. I always related with the female side. Still do. However, now when I look at photos, I much prefer seeing attractive non-pre-op, non-silicone TG ladies, (not the overly boobified shemales) receiving sex from men. That may be because even though I have personal changes planned, I still plan on keeping my "little friend", or as my wife calls him, my "little gentleman". Guess that makes me a bit unusual. I is what I is.
Sorry for the rambling, it's probably still a little bit of anesthesia.